Your children are wealth.
People teasing me in a joking manner that I will need a second part time job because I’m having a 4th kid.
That’s the mindset of someone who sees children as a liability, instead of seeing children as wealth and as an asset.
Alhumdulilah I’ve been able to put myself and my family in a position where I live within my means, and can provide for my family comfortably.
The secret isn’t hard.
Bust your butt, spend less than what you make, save and invest, and put your trust in Allah.